what's the moral protocol for this, and why?

[Molby]

someone writes you a cheque as a present; it's in a card that you open (a wedding gift) at your party

 

but sadly the mate has died in the meantime   - a week before you get your hands on the gift

 

oy, what a conundrum! 

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Edited October 16, 2019 by Ostrich Man

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