serious question guys...

crisps · May 6, 2011

Just like to know if any of you have and how you dealt with it, if you're still with them or if it drove you apart and how much you could take...

Reason being been with a girl nearly 9 months, both still live with parents etc... and it's never got to the 'love' stage and slowly after the first couple of months all this came out into the open...

she lost alot of weight eating next to nowt and extensive workouts but now thats gone and she does eat a bit normal but now winges all time about putting a few pounds on cos she actually eats now and constantly goes on now about being overweight n chubby even though she isnt one bit (but accordin to her everyone is lying to her when they tell her she's not) and Since then she's just been moody, snappy, paranoid, insecure, angry and tbf it's getting to the point where it's a nightmare, and we norm fall out a couple of times a week over nothing due to her moods etc.

Now I've tried getting her to try and start sorting herself and give her advice and see medical people etc but nothing ever changes and she jus kicks off about all this... and keeps with the bad habits and everything and long term theres not a chance i could cope with this and its getting to the stage where I just feel like it's a waste of time and it's making me seriously fed up and i'd rather just go back out with my mates...

But in all i would like it to work and i feel guilty-ish for thinking i could do without this now but at the same time i think well she's not even trying to sort it out so why should I bother...

so! - anyone been in any similar situations and wtf did u do!?

Edited May 6, 2011 by crisps

Sir Tokyo Sexwale · May 6, 2011

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